A husband writes to Dr. Kruschinski
This email was sent to me and I had no idea it was written or sent, and had not discussed anything with this person ever! Beverly
Daniel,
Your childish attempt to insult means nothing to me, but it certainly shows what kind of man you are. Why do you send me an email to insult me when I have had no communications with you whatsoever for quite some time? Do you dare lie and deny the kind of treatment T received in Germany? The complications she mentions in her email? Everything T wrote in that email is the truth, and you most certainly know that what is happening now is simply the same thing that has happened to virtually every woman who has come to you in desperation, only to be fooled into coming to Germany by your manipulating boasts and lies.
I don't know what goal you are aiming for, but it can't be to help people, because you wouldn't be doing the things you do if you had that in mind.
We were lured to Germany with the promise of good treatment and the possibility of my T being adhesion free for the rest of her life. What we didn't know was that the women who had been to you before we went were keeping silent because they were coerced into it and that anyone who spoke against you was banished from internet chat boards and belittled by you and people who still believed in you. I challenge you to give me JUST ONE VERIFIABLE NAME of a woman who was been under your knife at least 6 months ago and is still completely pain free and adhesion free. Your
boasts of 98.9% success come from where??? I ask if you think T was a success??? Why does every woman I know of who went to Germany have adhesions again, and many of them worse off than before they went??? I wonder why our "after" pictures don't have the same shots of Tonya's lower abdomen and intestines that were in the "before" pictures.
What is or isn't there???
Her adhesions have not only returned, but there are more painfulplaces on her body now than she had before you performed surgery on her. She didn't want to believe it, and neither did I, so we tried to pass her old and new pains off as surgery pain that hadn't healed yet, or phantom pains, or anything but adhesions. But as time goes on, we cannot deny the same old tearing and pulling that she's oh, so familiar with, from her adhesions in the past. We have also found out recently that the abdolift that you supposedly invented also causes complications and that is why the US decided to use gas instead. I find it curiously suspicious that T has pain around her navel that just happens to fit the size and shape of your abdolift. She has never had pain around her belly button before we went to Germany, and now she has a lot of pain in that area. Also, yes, T did send you a nice email explaining her pain. In fact, I'm pasting it here to refresh your memory:
"From: Name removed by Bev to protect the innocent
To: Dr.Kruschinski@t-online.de
Sent: Sunday, July 27, 2003 1:30 PM
Subject: IMPORTANT INFO....
Dear Dr. K,
I went to my gyno last Tuesday and I have been having some pain in my stomache again. I've thought that it was just constipation and "phantom pains" but the truth is that he and I think I have some adhesions again.
I've held off on telling anyone because I was in denial. I still feel really good and I can do all the things that I love to do, but I have two places in my stomache that if I stretch I can feel where they start and end. I was afraid to tell D but after a night of real pain, I decided to bring up that my gyno thinks that I have them back too. I will not discredit you in any way. I'm still glad that I had the surgery with you and at least I'm not in the kind of pain that I was in when I first saw you. I hope that you can understand that I have to tell you the truth. I think you will appreciate me coming forth with this and not just hiding it. I don't knowif I should post it on the board or not. I feel like others should knowabout it, but I have held off on telling anyone until I spoke to you first.
I want you to know that this is very hard to tell you. When Dawn first started writing about her pain, I was angry with her for doing so. But then it made me think that I was living a lie too. I have been feeling good, but I know that I'm not telling the complete truth by saying that I have no pain. It started when I was in Mexico on my honeymoon with D. I got constipated and started feeling a little pain in my stomache. Then when we got home July 2nd, I was feeling a little more and a little more. I do not have to take meds for it yet and I pray that it will not get worse. Please know that I'll not slander your good name, but I feel that my friends need to know that there is a possibility that the adhesions may come back when you have endo. I never knew that I had endo until my gyno looked at the pictures that you took and said that I was covered in it. He told me that the chances of my adhesions returning were very high. I didn't know this.
So I've been thinking that any pain was just a "phantom pain". I hope this will not ruin our relationship as I will never hurt your name in any way.
I'm not sorry that I went to have surgery with you and in fact, it gave me back my life. I don't know if this will get worse or not, but I will keep you posted of my health issues.
With kindest regards,
T N"
You responded with accusations and insults. And I quote:
"Dear T,first of all: your gyn can't know when adhesions come back, is he a god??? looking on pictures and says you have adhesions ???"
You then went on to offer a "free" third look surgery to "see" if there were adhesions. You also tried to make her gynecologist seem like he was trying to discredit you and push the "good" results down. I know you can't understand what adhesions feel like any more than I can, but THESE WOMEN DO! Don't you realize that after 5 or 6 or 7 surgeries that a woman can recognize what is going on in her body by then? They don't need a doctor to open them up and show them the adhesions that they already know are there. T and I have discovered many facts about you since we have returned from Germany. Since T’s pain has come back, we are discovering MUCH more. People are being told to keep quiet about recurring symptoms???
And I quote for example:
"From: Karen (last name deleted for this email since it will be shared withothers)
To: Name removed by Bev to protect the innocent
Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2003 10:32 AM
Subject: hi
Hi
Thanks for the nice reply.....and thanks for understandingthat I needed to tell you not to bring up the Michaela issue. I promised Daniel a long time back it was forgotten, so I want that to be true!! There have been so many negative things happening toDaniel that are coming from the IAS, Dawn, Beverly, etc......I think you need to be VERY careful what you share concerning your operation, experience, etc. I think the truth is important and we should be able to share our true experience, however,,,,,,"Karen Steward
That email above was from one of your followers. You have offered third looks to many other women??? Why was all this information kept from us and others??? Again, I have to ask where your supposed 98.9% success rate comes from??? I challenge you again to give me just one verifiable name of a woman who's been under your knife at least 6 months ago and is still adhesion free and pain free. It appears that everything that is allowed to surface by you and your followers are geared to get more women to Germany, and anything you don't like is deleted (yes, EVEN ON YOUR SITE where you supposedly allow free speech), women who speak up are demeaned, discredited or pushed aside in anyway possible, and accused of "slandering your name", so people who need help will trust you and put there lives in your hands for your selfish purposes. I could go on and on but I don't believe it will help. Suffice it to saythat I AM a man. A man who truly cares for and loves his wife. A man who will never allow another butcher to touch her.D-----
Original Message -----From: To: "D Sent: Friday, August 01, 2003 11:13 AM
Subject: Re: YOUR BEST DAY !!!D ! Are you a man ? What's that ? Only 2 days after she wrote me a nice email ???I can't understand such a unhuman thing ...***********************
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